“I wan’t to kiss you in every kind of way, in every possible place when we are together.” Like I honestly want to hold you and give you a kiss that would make you so weak in the knees that I might have to carry you around the house cause you’d be so numb. I want to give you a kiss so good and so passionate, that it would feel as if I was inside you in the middle of us making love, with every thrust being my tongue moving with yours. I want to lay you down on the bed, and slowly undress you, but I don’t want to make love, I want to kiss your body up and down, down and up until my lips get tired of tracing the outline of your physique. And when you’re looking at yourself in the mirror, I will come behind you and wrap my arms around your waist, I will slowly raise up your shirt and move your hair to the side as I kiss your neck, back and lips.
I want you to feel as if I am fulfilling your every desire, without the need of us having to have intercourse. Because I never want to make a relationship solely based on that, which is why I want to kiss your body in and out, I want to know it’s secrets, and your spots, I want to know where are you the most ticklish and where do I have to kiss to get you turned on. I want to know what makes you laugh the hardest, and what makes you smile the most. I want to know you inside and out with only having to use my lips, so if the day ever comes where we are ready to take that next step, it will be without a doubt something you will never forget. Because you will wholeheartedly know my intentions, my heart and my devotion. You will know that I have taken out the time to know you, to love you, to kiss you, to hold you, to adore you, and to cherish you. <3
I think it’s time we go back to the basics. Let’s go back to the days were a flower, meant I like you. I think it’s a far better way to be romantic and it doesn’t involve spending a fortune or doing something big just to impress your girl. I know these days giving flowers has become a somewhat cliche gesture, but who cares. Sometimes the most simplest ways are the most effective. Your lady will love that you put far more thought into your selection of flowers than just grabbing anything to make her smile. You’ll come off as a real gentleman in that you actually wanted to make her smile. A flower is a pretty and pleasant way of saying “I was thinking of you and wanted to give you something beautiful as an expression of what me thinking of you represents.” Which is lovely. What could be wrong with that?
Flowers bring upon a smile on the face, a twinkle in the eyes, it spreads the love and romance in the ambiance. Any girl who says they do not like receiving flowers, has never received some. It’s a pure and sweet gesture, it’s so simple but so cute. I think even women have forgotten the meaning of flowers, one honest flower can speak more than words. Let’s remind them why they’re important. Let’s send a surprise flower package to school, leave a bouquet in the front seat when you pick up your girl, surprise her with one the next time you hang out. Let’s bring back the basics, and show girls that we do indeed know how to make them smile. <3
Living up to others expectations, trying to meet people’s standards, and being jealous of other peoples psychical appearances get’s you no where. Your beauty on the inside is what should get looked at, I know it doesn’t sadly, but really that is what shines through that everyone else will notice. I know it’s cliche and very overused, but I will never stop telling people this until they realize it. Everybody is has their own beauty, we just fail to see it. I see to many people bring themselves down for absolutely nothing. No matter what people say to you, don’t let them tell you who or what you are. Tell yourself you’re worth it and how wonderful you are. We all have flaws, there’s no doubt about it, but we all have something amazing about us as well. Whether it’s a hidden talent, how we give great advice, how we dress, how we are creative, how we write or whatever, we are all special and beautiful in our own way. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, do what makes you happy, be with who makes you happy, laugh as much as you want and love as much as you live, because you only have one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. <3
What Women Want From Men in a Relationship -
Confidence - Confidence is the most important factor that comes first in the list of what women really want from men. While men fall for a woman’s physical attractiveness, women fall for the man’s confidence. You may not be very handsome, but if you are confident in the way you walk and talk to the lady, she is surely going to find you attractive. Though having a sensitive partner is what women are seeking for, they do not want a person who apologizes for everything and wimps often. A woman wants to have a man who listens and sympathizes with her and protects her.
Respect - Though women like their men to be chivalrous towards them, they do not want to be treated as if they are absolute fools. Rather, respect is something that women want their men to have for them. This does not mean that you have to agree upon whatever they have to say. On the other hand, what I meant by respect is that women want men to respect their opinions, friends, thoughts and their decisions. They want men to be considerate, honest, kind and fair towards them.
Sense of Humor - Humor is the best way to unlock the heart of a woman as they love men who can make them laugh. After all, who would like to be in a relationship with a man who is serious, shy and dull all the time. This can make the relationship quite boring. So, if you want to impress a woman who you like, bring out your humorous side. However, make sure that you are genuine and not just trying to be funny. This is because women have a radar for people who are just acting to be funny you know? Just trying to be funny can make you seem to be a loser in her eyes, so know when to bring that out.
Good Listener - A good listener is one of the most important part in the list of what women want from men. Unfortunately, most men are not very good at this and can go off track when the woman is venting her experiences and emotions to them. Most women have the habit of talking and complaining about their problems and most of the time, it is their way of unwinding at the end of the day. They just want their man to listen to them with true interest and not to concentrate on what he should say to comfort her.
Faithfulness - Women know that men have the habit of checking out other women, even when they are around and although this doesn’t make it okay, we know it happens. Nevertheless, infidelity and cheating in a relationship is never okay, the most important thing that women want from men is to be loyal to them. If you are very serious in a relationship and love your woman, then, see to it that you remain true to her. Remember that trust is an emotion that keeps a relationship together and makes it strong and any wrong move can break this delicate bond. <3
Real love doesn’t necessarily knock you off your feet. It doesn’t fix you or your life. Real love is something that can be felt in the depths of your soul and seen in the smallest actions between two people. Real love is the love between two people, that makes both people better, but not in the way that it is making them whole. Real love starts with complimenting the soul, complimenting the real person. it comes when you’re at peace with yourself, when you know what you want, what you like, and what steps you feel you need to take so you can get there. At the very least, you need to be in touch with yourself, and know how to take care of yourself, because that is when you can let someone else in.
There has to be a compatibility and a sense of excitement, but this will change over time. It’s the syncing up of two people in this respect that equates to great love, and when it isn’t working, the great loves can talk about it and know how to fix it. Real love is the feeling of knowing that your person is with you, even if they’re physically not. It’s the trust, the admiration, the respect that you have for your person, and you know you have from them. It’s the smiles you get from just thinking about them, and it’s the constant of these feelings. Most relationships start with these feelings, at least at some point, but real love realizes that there are days when you don’t have the same feelings on the surface, but deep down, you know it’s there. <3
It is so easy to get caught up in the lack of thankfulness that is prevalent in nearly every area of life today. When thankfulness dies in the heart of a person, they can only think of themselves, and they become increasingly selfish. As a result, anti-social behavior becomes the norm and that’s never good. Let’s look at some simple things to be thankful for. No matter how old you are, or how imperfect your parents are, you should be thankful for them. After all, they gave you life. They may have failed miserably once you were born, but if you look hard enough, you can find something about them that you can be thankful for. Major on the little positive things, and let the negative things go. Be thankful for the food you have to eat every day. It may not be exactly what you want to eat, but you can be thankful your stomach isn’t growling in hunger that can’t be satisfied.
It always helps to remember that somewhere in the world there is someone that has nothing to eat. Be thankful for the sunshine, the rain and the beauty that lies around you. Get up each morning and look outside. Be thankful for what you see. Be thankful for the miracle of living things all around you. Boyfriends and girlfriends, be thankful for one another. Lay aside the pickiness and bickering. Begin to look for little things you can be thankful for in the other person’s life. Tell them what you see in them that you appreciate.
Parents if you ever read this, be thankful for each one of your children. Each one is different, but each one is a special gift from God. No child is “just an accident”. Be thankful for the opportunity you have to mold that precious life that has been placed in your home. Look around you, and be thankful for the things that you have. Don’t major on what you don’t have and what you want. Be content with what you have. Thankfulness is a major key to happiness and contentment in this life and the more we are grateful the more things will be in our favor. You can be in the middle of one of the worst times in your life, but if you begin to look around you and be thankful for little things, your entire spirit will be lifted above the problems at hand. Begin to look for things you can be thankful for, and you will be amazed at how being thankful will change your life. God bless, from the bottom of my heart, me. - ♥
Lately I have been thinking about a lot of things, about life and time and love and everything else in this world. It’s crazy how the speed of life moves so fast, one moment you think you’ve got it all together, and then a week later back down you go. Ever wonder how you got to where you are? Where did the last ten years of your life go? Does it all seem like a blur to you? One minute you’re learning how to tie your shoe, the next minute you’re on your way to school, before you know it, you’re driving, then you’re getting married, and having a few children, it’s crazy. Sometimes I think we are so focused on large big goals that we always fail to realize the small things. We forget to take notice probably the majority of the time because we live in a society that is fast. Impatience is a quality we love to thrive on.
When you live too fast, you pass by many things and you take it all for granted. We live on such a fast track, that when we actually do stop for a minute or two, we are sometimes dumbfounded. “How did I get here” runs through your mind, “I can’t believe the year is almost over” you know? Please know that every day is special. It could be the happiest day of your life, or your last. Knowing that, why not make your days count? We always rush to make others happy, but let’s make ourselves happy. Take the time to support yourself. You will not only feel physically better, but mentally better as well. Take the time to tell people close to you, that you love them; take the time to start that thing you always wanted to do. Take time out for you, because we have one life to live and you don’t want to miss out on it. After all, “life goes by too fast.”
Guys, what constitutes ‘the right girl’ varies wildly from guy to guy. Qualities that draw in some people may push others away you know? So how can you tell that the girl you’re with is the one for you? Well for starters, if you can’t keep your eyes off her and not in an obsessive sort of way, but in a fond, loving, attracted way then that’s good. If you know she’s gorgeous, and you can’t help but look at her whenever possible, that’s her presence doing that to you. She may not even be that attractive by society’s standards, but if you adore her, she’ll be the most beautiful thing in the world. Along the same lines, you won’t even consider other girls. They’re a non factor in your life so long as she’s around you know? You may glance occasionally, true, but the thought of pursuing one of them, won’t happen. What’s the point if you’ve already hit the peak of perfection right?
If she’s willing to make sacrifices for you keep her. Even if they are small they’re sacrifices nonetheless. An unselfish attitude is a great sign that they’re a great girl in the long run, someone who can work as a team. If she makes you laugh, love her. Laughter is happiness, and happiness is what you’re looking for. A girl who can elicit a smile from you, no matter the time of day or the situation at hand, is one you want around for life. If she’s not hopelessly jealous, but a little cherish her. It’s better to have a girl that cares, than to have one who doesn’t. Last, and perhaps most important, if she fills you with a warm, feeling every time you look at her. If she makes you feel like never before, that’s love, and if there’s any truer sign that she’s the one you should be with, it’s when you get that high of emotion. <3